In a previous post (https://www.nairaland.com/8096971/getting-correct-lady-say-yes) where I, amongst other things, drew a portrait of who a correct lady is, I emphasized the fact that marriage is one of God’s core strategies to empower us to become all He has destined us to be with great ease. In other words, you are primarily aiming to marry a member of the opposite gender not for sex or childbearing or companionship sake, but the most important thing is that they have the configuration to play a unique and pivotal role in helping you fulfill destiny (becoming all God has destined you to be) with great ease.

Now, as a lady, if you want to enjoy the full dividends of marriage with peace of mind, you have to go the bible way (God’s way) and not as dictated by imperfect societal standards and opinions. This means you have to be patient with God to bless you with a man who has the configurations to help you fulfill destiny and must not agree to marry a random guy just because of physical considerations (money, height, complexion, etc).

I want you to remember this, like Eve, if God will lead you to a correct guy who can help you navigate your journeys in destiny, you must also be a correct lady who can be an adequate helper to him too. To attract a correct man, you must be a correct lady too. And to have such a configuration, you must be genuinely saved, submitted to the Holy Spirit, and have started running with destiny.

I explained all these in full detail in my books “Getting A Correct Lady To Say Yes To Your Marriage Proposal” and “Getting A Correct Guy To Propose Marriage To You”.

In the context of our conversations here (about marriage), a correct guy is a male God has configured to help you fulfill your destiny as your husband. He is not only saved (submitted to the Lordship of Jesus and the government of the Holy Spirit), but is already running with destiny even as a single guy. A guy who is useful and beneficial to God his Creator will translate into a quality husband for you.